View Full Version : Eating my own cum - psychological barrier
FlyingBat
03-14-2005, 02:41 AM
The idea of drinking my own cum or any cum has always been a big turn on to me. I love watching other guys do it and would love to do it myself. But there is a problem. Everytime I jack off, I plan on eating my cum. But everytime after I cum, it just doesn't happen. This is because after I cum I immediately lose all interest in anything sexual, including drinking cum. It's like a switch is flipped inside me from on to off. What originally seemed like a fantasy now seems like something pointless and kind of nasty. I look at the cum in my hand and think "why would I eat this now. there is no point. my sexual arousment has already been fulfilled and there is no point to it anymore". And then after 10 minutes I always regret my decision not to eat it. Its like I'm trapped. The times I want to eat it are the times when it's not available and when it's available it seems nasty.
I would like to find some kind of way to work around this apparent barrier and succussfully drink a load of cum. There have been one or two times when I have had sort of a half orgasm where I cummed and was miraculously still horny and able to taste the cum (but not eat it), but those were rare and I don't know how to induce them. Can anyone help me with this? All suggestions are appreciated. Thanks.
BTW I have lots of pics and vids of me cumming all over my face in legs-over-head position, but I don't really feel secure about posting them online. God forbid one of my relatives uses this forum or someone distributes it all over the internet.. you know...
mme32
03-14-2005, 05:25 AM
Swallow it immediately...I used to think the same way...but found out if I didn't give myself time to think about it..it would work out
Strocker
03-14-2005, 12:07 PM
Oh man I feel with you.
Reading your description of the “events” is like reading my own first cum drink attempts.
I just couldn’t bring myself to go through with it.
When I jacked of I was always into “Now I do NEED to know what it tastes like”. Then, when I had shot my load and stick a finger in it to bring it up to my mouth, I chickened out.
It was somehow disgusting to look at, that creamy whit gooey stuff, smelling like a mixture of piss and chlorine and whatever. I whipped it off with a Kleenex and when I did that always I thought ”Asshole, why didn’t you taste it? Another load wasted!” Well many more attempts wwent like that, I would be int eh “cock over your mouth “ position or just on my back but when I came it was all over. Occasionally I jazzed into the palm of my hand to lick it off, but again that disgusting feeling. Then one day I was soo hot I didn’t care, I stroked my member for eternity, flipped my legs and when I felt I needed to cum I stayed in position, closed my eyes and somehow managed to aim directly to my open mouth. Then…squirt….squirt…..it all hit my mouth and I taste my cum for the first time (well not entirely my first; I once sticked my tongue into some cum at the palm of my hand at about light speed, so I didn’t get the taste of it) . I loved that taste immediately and went for a second run just after my cock had enough time to grow hard again. I swallow my semen almost every time, some times while self sucking, sometime just a bit when I force myself to not shoot and only a bit leaks out.
All advice I can give you is: only once stay in position!
Either you’ll love the taste and are going to do it form there on when ever you can, or you’ll hate it and it stops now and then.
As for posting your pictures.
Well I had the same doubts at first and then it hit me: “What if some of my relatives sees it? Or a friend?”
Yeah what?
He’s either gay or bi and loves to look at cocks and guys who can self suck and like to drink their own cum!! He will also know I do too and either approaches me and perhaps we will have some “fun”, or keeps it a secret, since it would mean to admit the love towards cocks.
Either way nothing “bad” happened.
BTW, I had a SS session on Saturday, her is a picture of me l seconds before licking up that drop of delicious pre-cum…hmmmm….:D
http://www.gay-board.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=4202
Qwestor
03-15-2005, 07:43 PM
The best advice I can offer you is just try smelling your cum in your hand at first. I mean for the next few times to get use to it. After you get use to your own cum smell, just try a quick dip with your tounge. Just relax your muscles in your body, and try a little taste, that's all. If you don't like it, try another day.
Also it depends on what you have eaten in the last few days. That will affect the smell and taste of your cum. Maybe you can ask the guys who you know have done it how they were able to taste thier own cum and maybe try what they did. After you try it once, you might like it a lot. If your a smoker, that will affect your cum taste in a negative way. If your a non-smoker, good job! Should be much easier. You could also try a product called Semen-X I think. I read about it on the internet a few years ago. It's a powder you mix with water and drink then in three days or so your cum will taste like candy, hehe. Anyhow, good luck.
cummylance
05-06-2005, 12:07 AM
You can easily overcome the psycho barrier by trying to have your cumm spewed on a spoon and have it cooled over a block of ice so that it will loose the clorox smell and will become a lot more gooier in consistenscy. Use the time to clean up and regain the lost libido you experience during the post cumm stage. I suggest taking a bath and then you could powder your entire body or use johnson's baby lotion to pamper yourself and be ready to try to taste your own cumm. Slurp it from the spoon after you have it sniffed and find out that it tastes similar to very young coconut meat. You can also spurt your cumm in a glass of very cold and creamy powdered milk so that you wont have to be able to see or smell it before you have it swallowed. You can reach me via +63-922-497-5214 or at sweetbabyhunk@yahoo.com
cummylance
05-06-2005, 12:17 AM
By the way is there anyone out there who loves to use johnson's baby lotion when they selfsuck? I kinda like to squirt it all over my totally naked body as if im being spurted with loads after loads of creamy cumm!!! Please do mail me at sweetbabyhunk@yahoo.com so that we could share more cumm swallowing tips or contact me at +63-922-497-5214.
jizzyboner
05-06-2005, 08:36 AM
The idea of drinking my own cum or any cum has always been a big turn on to me. I love watching other guys do it and would love to do it myself. But there is a problem. Everytime I jack off, I plan on eating my cum. But everytime after I cum, it just doesn't happen. This is because after I cum I immediately lose all interest in anything sexual, including drinking cum. It's like a switch is flipped inside me from on to off. What originally seemed like a fantasy now seems like something pointless and kind of nasty. I look at the cum in my hand and think "why would I eat this now. there is no point. my sexual arousment has already been fulfilled and there is no point to it anymore". And then after 10 minutes I always regret my decision not to eat it. Its like I'm trapped. The times I want to eat it are the times when it's not available and when it's available it seems nasty.
I would like to find some kind of way to work around this apparent barrier and succussfully drink a load of cum. There have been one or two times when I have had sort of a half orgasm where I cummed and was miraculously still horny and able to taste the cum (but not eat it), but those were rare and I don't know how to induce them. Can anyone help me with this? All suggestions are appreciated. Thanks.
BTW I have lots of pics and vids of me cumming all over my face in legs-over-head position, but I don't really feel secure about posting them online. God forbid one of my relatives uses this forum or someone distributes it all over the internet.. you know...
Hello guys,
I used to suck my own dick and really that was the only way I could get myself to eat my own jizz--to shoot it right in my mouth. I have not self-sucked in a while. For me, a lot of limbering and working at it is required. I guess I'm not a natural self-sucker. I still wanted to slurp my jizz, but wanted to get past that "turned-off" feeling I would get after spurting into my hand (or whatever).
What worked for me is what some buddies and I call "slowgasms". It sounds a lot like your half-orgasm, but I find it is something I can train myself to do. It is an amazing experience that you, too, can enjoy. Pull you pud as usual, maybe edging up and backing a couple of times. It helps to be really horny and carrying a big load of juice. When you start to feel a big surge of cum, relax your dick muscles completely. This may take a little practice. What happens then, is that you get this wonderful cock-warming sensation and a gentle steam of your dickjuice will flow into your hand. Your dick stays hard and hypersensitive. So there your are, standing there still jazzed, hot, and hard with a handful of your jizz. Slurping it up will seem to be the most natural thing in the world to you--so enjoy it. Lightly brush your fingertips over that nerve on the underside of your cockhead. You'll find it is in overdrive and make your dick twitch with joy. You can extend this "slowgasm" sensation for 30 minutes or more. I do 2 or 3 more of these slowgasm/slurp sessions before I finally bring myself to fullblown orgasm. By then, there isn't much left, but the final orgasm is a lightening bolt, all the same.
Like I say, this has worked for me and some buddies. Let me know if it works for you, along with any interesting variations you might come up with.
angus1
05-06-2005, 06:39 PM
Yes I have experienced slowgasms a few times and they are fantastic! Self control is very difficult. Practice makes perfect! I would love to party with you...
johnny
05-15-2005, 12:15 AM
Yes I have experienced slowgasms a few times and they are fantastic! Self control is very difficult. Practice makes perfect! I would love to party with you...i have done this lots of times and am able to shot a couple of small streams of cum so i can lick my cum while i stay hot.
brownfox
08-08-2005, 10:25 PM
Swallow it immediately...I used to think the same way...but found out if I didn't give myself time to think about it..it would work outWhen you cam into your face just open your mouth,and take some jizz there. That is how I like to do it. Interested in picture exchange? I have a lot of my self getting jizz into my face.
txspunk
08-10-2005, 02:47 AM
I used to never be able to eat it either after I came. Slowgasms have changed all that. I used to 'edge' all the time, but never tried relaxing my muscles enough to let streams of precum/cum dribble out into my palm or a spoon. Now I can get 3-4 which are easy to slurp up because I haven't actually cum yet and am still horny! It's so cool. Then when I do cum, I flip over and shoot the final load straight into my mouth. I had to practice a lot :D to get the slowgasm technique down - it was worth it.
johnny
08-10-2005, 04:10 PM
I used to never be able to eat it either after I came. Slowgasms have changed all that. I used to 'edge' all the time, but never tried relaxing my muscles enough to let streams of precum/cum dribble out into my palm or a spoon. Now I can get 3-4 which are easy to slurp up because I haven't actually cum yet and am still horny! It's so cool. Then when I do cum, I flip over and shoot the final load straight into my mouth. I had to practice a lot :D to get the slowgasm technique down - it was worth it.i think that is the best way to get past the taste and smell. you stay horny while your shoot small amounts to taste. 8)
genuinefine
08-14-2005, 06:38 PM
Yeah, and for some reason, when you're still horny like that, the taste and smell are pretty good ------- or at least it seems that way for me.
And the thought of eating my cum while slowgasming is just too good. Gotta admit, too......I like it when my bf watches me eat my cum.
gr101
08-16-2005, 12:49 AM
The truth is guy, that the self suck sex isn't over until you lick it up the load.
The orgasm is just the start. Got to lick it up and clean it up. You will get to love it more and more. Don't throw that stuff away !
johnny
08-16-2005, 11:28 PM
The truth is guy, that the self suck sex isn't over until you lick it up the load.
The orgasm is just the start. Got to lick it up and clean it up. You will get to love it more and more. Don't throw that stuff away !hey i like cum too much to ever waste it. i will always like the cleanup more than the getting there. 8)
genuinefine
08-17-2005, 10:11 AM
If I self suck, or if I just jack into my mouth, I don't usually have any to lick up (although I agree that's pretty hot fun). I like to shoot it all in my mouth, and one of the best parts of selfing is feeling my dick pulse out cum in my mouth.
Since I like it when my bf watches me eat my cum (he's gotten real good and helping me slowgasm), I've been trying to get him into eating his. He does seem to like letting me feed him his pre; but he's not really into eating his cum as much as I am; so sometimes I've had to get a little sneaky (don't worry --- no complaints from him). I got him to pop a load right into his mouth when I jacked him while rimming him; then, several times I've gotten him to shoot a load on my cock and then suck me off (that is too great). Also, sometimes I like to make him shoot into my hand, and then I can either smooth it all over my cock & balls --- and occasionally he didn't see me do that and gets a surprise taste of his cum when he puts his mouth over my cock.
johnny
08-17-2005, 12:09 PM
If I self suck, or if I just jack into my mouth, I don't usually have any to lick up (although I agree that's pretty hot fun). I like to shoot it all in my mouth, and one of the best parts of selfing is feeling my dick pulse out cum in my mouth.
Since I like it when my bf watches me eat my cum (he's gotten real good and helping me slowgasm), I've been trying to get him into eating his. He does seem to like letting me feed him his pre; but he's not really into eating his cum as much as I am; so sometimes I've had to get a little sneaky (don't worry --- no complaints from him). I got him to pop a load right into his mouth when I jacked him while rimming him; then, several times I've gotten him to shoot a load on my cock and then suck me off (that is too great). Also, sometimes I like to make him shoot into my hand, and then I can either smooth it all over my cock & balls --- and occasionally he didn't see me do that and gets a surprise taste of his cum when he puts his mouth over my cock.i think enjoying your pleasure with someone is just alot of fun. i am sure he knows what your doing and wants to play alone. i don't have a partner so i have to enjoy my pleasures when and how i can.
genuinefine
08-18-2005, 09:58 AM
i think enjoying your pleasure with someone is just alot of fun. i am sure he knows what your doing and wants to play alone. i don't have a partner so i have to enjoy my pleasures when and how i can.
I can understand completely ------ went plenty of time being single. For some reason, I was never lucky at finding cum lovers or self suckers when I was dating or finding guys for quick sex. Good number of guys who swallowed cum; but not their own ------- unless they were doing it when they were by themselves (very possible). I've met more guys just chatting who at least say they're cum lovers.
As far as my partner goes, I sorta doubt that he eats his cum when he's alone ('cause I know he likes to use a cum rag or just wipe it up in a kleenex and flush it ----- and you know I love finding a fresh cum rag!); but I know that he does jack at least semi-regularly, which I think is very normal and "healthy". Now if I can just figure out a way to hook up an infared video cam for when he goes to bed before I do..... LOL!
johnny
08-18-2005, 10:31 AM
i think enjoying your pleasure with someone is just alot of fun. i am sure he knows what your doing and wants to play alone. i don't have a partner so i have to enjoy my pleasures when and how i can.
I can understand completely ------ went plenty of time being single. For some reason, I was never lucky at finding cum lovers or self suckers when I was dating or finding guys for quick sex. Good number of guys who swallowed cum; but not their own ------- unless they were doing it when they were by themselves (very possible). I've met more guys just chatting who at least say they're cum lovers.
As far as my partner goes, I sorta doubt that he eats his cum when he's alone ('cause I know he likes to use a cum rag or just wipe it up in a kleenex and flush it ----- and you know I love finding a fresh cum rag!); but I know that he does jack at least semi-regularly, which I think is very normal and "healthy". Now if I can just figure out a way to hook up an infared video cam for when he goes to bed before I do..... LOL!maybe when he's bye his self he has the idea that when he cums that it won't taste very good since when most people shot their load they lose that sexual high and the idea of their cum tasting good is lost. 8)
genuinefine
08-18-2005, 11:52 AM
Could be. Even though he has seen and helped me slowgasm, I might need to tell him up front how good it is. Like a bunch of us have been saying, slowgasming is a good way to eat your own cum without losing the urge to.
If you haven't tried it, I hope you do. Lots of good how-to's on this board. :)
johnny
08-18-2005, 06:05 PM
Could be. Even though he has seen and helped me slowgasm, I might need to tell him up front how good it is. Like a bunch of us have been saying, slowgasming is a good way to eat your own cum without losing the urge to.
If you haven't tried it, I hope you do. Lots of good how-to's on this board. :)hey i have found that it is the best way for me to keep my cum on my tongue and stay horny and not feel ill when i roll the thick cream stuff around my tongue. it is just hot when i take and dip and thrash my tongue thru my cum.i taste it and it makes me feel good about wanting to have it in my mouth and drinking when i get thru playing with it. hey why don't you invite him to this forum so he can get an idea or two about how to please you.8)
genuinefine
08-20-2005, 10:49 AM
Might not be a bad idea. :) Actually, he pleases me a lot; but I'm sure you know that a good part of sex with a hot guy is getting him worked up and enjoying himself. I want to get him "hanging from the ceiling" with pleasure just like he can make me.
I'm still working on getting him to enjoy good attention to his cock head like he gives me to make me start slowgasming. It gets me moaning, gasping, and almost screaming with intense feeling in my cock ---- sometimes till I think I can't take any more ---- but like, go ahead and do more, ya know? Gotta realize, though, that not every guy gets the same enjoyment out of cock head teasing or has the same sensitivity on his cock head. But I would love to get his cock drooling out small loads of cum like he can make mine do, and then share the cum with him..... for his enjoyment as much as mine. Plenty of fun workin toward that "goal", and I know he likes doin it to me.
Love being on here with you guys who like cum as much as I do!
johnny
08-20-2005, 11:35 AM
Might not be a bad idea. :) Actually, he pleases me a lot; but I'm sure you know that a good part of sex with a hot guy is getting him worked up and enjoying himself. I want to get him "hanging from the ceiling" with pleasure just like he can make me.
I'm still working on getting him to enjoy good attention to his cock head like he gives me to make me start slowgasming. It gets me moaning, gasping, and almost screaming with intense feeling in my cock ---- sometimes till I think I can't take any more ---- but like, go ahead and do more, ya know? Gotta realize, though, that not every guy gets the same enjoyment out of cock head teasing or has the same sensitivity on his cock head. But I would love to get his cock drooling out small loads of cum like he can make mine do, and then share the cum with him..... for his enjoyment as much as mine. Plenty of fun workin toward that "goal", and I know he likes doin it to me.
Love being on here with you guys who like cum as much as I do!maybe if you and he mix cum in each other mouth while kissing he will get use to liking his own. 8)
ZelfZucker
08-20-2005, 06:11 PM
i am in a similar predicament. i am just now swallowing my load. i first started out just cuming in my mouth. then, i'd try to swallow a little. eventually i hope to down the whole load as if it were maple surup.
johnny
08-20-2005, 06:29 PM
i am in a similar predicament. i am just now swallowing my load. i first started out just cuming in my mouth. then, i'd try to swallow a little. eventually i hope to down the whole load as if it were maple surup. that is the way to go a little at a time but you'll finally do it. 8)
ZelfZucker
08-20-2005, 06:40 PM
yes and once you do it once, it will be easier from then on...
johnny
08-20-2005, 06:48 PM
yes and once you do it once, it will be easier from then on... well it will be easier doing it but some times it will taste different b/c of the foods you eat. what you put in you body will have a different taste. 8)
ZelfZucker
08-20-2005, 06:50 PM
seems to be an acquired taste too. i never liked the taste of beer as a child but now i love it.
johnny
08-20-2005, 07:09 PM
seems to be an acquired taste too. i never liked the taste of beer as a child but now i love it.yes it has times when i don't swallow. 8)
angus1
10-19-2005, 08:38 PM
After reading you guys wanting to suck cock and drink cum, I had to get naked and stroke my hard dick until I spewed my warm,creamy,salty-sweet semen directly into my own mouth!! Thank You!! I love to jerk off and drink my own Cum!!
txspunk
10-20-2005, 02:36 AM
Me too, angus1! :D I absolutely LOVE cum, both other guys and my own and never let it go to waste. I used to have to always flip over and shoot directly into my mouth, otherwise I would lose interest, but earlier this year I learned how to 'slowgasm' and that is incredible! I can work out 3-4 large ropes of cum and slurp it up before I finally shoot my final load. My favorite is to let it flow into a spoon.
Also, recently I hooked up with another guy that likes to eat his own cum and we've been messing around. Kind of like the situation genuinefine described above with his bf - he flips over and I rim him while he jacks off into his mouth. Of course, I lick up whatever he misses! He says it's so much easier to eat his own when my tongue is stimulating his hole and he can see me rimming him.
jizzyboner
10-20-2005, 12:57 PM
Me too, angus1! :D I absolutely LOVE cum, both other guys and my own and never let it go to waste. I used to have to always flip over and shoot directly into my mouth, otherwise I would lose interest, but earlier this year I learned how to 'slowgasm' and that is incredible! I can work out 3-4 large ropes of cum and slurp it up before I finally shoot my final load. My favorite is to let it flow into a spoon.
Also, recently I hooked up with another guy that likes to eat his own cum and we've been messing around. Kind of like the situation genuinefine described above with his bf - he flips over and I rim him while he jacks off into his mouth. Of course, I lick up whatever he misses! He says it's so much easier to eat his own when my tongue is stimulating his hole and he can see me rimming him.
TXspunk, Have you and this other guy ever slowgasmed together? Think you could keep your hands off of each other and maintain enough control to do that? :wink:
txspunk
10-21-2005, 02:35 AM
He's watched me slowgasm and tried, but couldn't stop from cumming. I'm going to have to work with him on muscle control! He does generate a lot of precum which he enjoys licking up, but it is hard for me to let him eat it and not get down on my knees and lick it up myself! Will keep you updated on our progress :D
johnny
10-21-2005, 03:30 AM
i think you'll have to keep him from getting to excited when you two are trying to slowgasm. i think he is just to excited when you two start.you and he will just have to look at it like it as something that's not so sexual but as some thing you two have to do. i hope you know what i am trying to say[ an experiment of sorts]. 8)
genuinefine
10-21-2005, 09:33 AM
He's watched me slowgasm and tried, but couldn't stop from cumming. I'm going to have to work with him on muscle control! He does generate a lot of precum which he enjoys licking up, but it is hard for me to let him eat it and not get down on my knees and lick it up myself! Will keep you updated on our progress :D
I hear ya, txspunk! Some of the joy of the teaching/learning process is that you don't want him to cum too soon; but if he does, you'll enjoy that load and then get back to teaching. As for the pre, I get off on seeing my bf lick his up almost as much as licking it up for him.
It would be really great if your bud learns to slowgasm; but you might also try the technique that my bf has gotten really good at using on me (I've talked about it before) where you get him into slowgasming by licking and sucking on his cock head. I know that you love to suck cock like I do, so you'll enjoy that; plus, you can demonstrate for him the process of backing off when he's real near shooting. Along the way, you can share his pre and his cum when it drools out. And you'll love driving him crazy with pleasure (his dick will feel SO good). BTW, when my bf and I get into this, we sometimes vary on the sharing part. Although I love getting a taste of my pre and my cum while he's teasing my cock head, I have to admit that I also love watching him enjoying licking and tasting. We even can't resist asking each other, "do you like that?" --- and you already know the answer. One other thing: watching each other suck dick and lick cum is too awesome! (Geez...... I think I know what I want to do tonight!)
Do please keep us updated!
jizzyboner
10-21-2005, 09:48 AM
He's watched me slowgasm and tried, but couldn't stop from cumming. I'm going to have to work with him on muscle control! He does generate a lot of precum which he enjoys licking up, but it is hard for me to let him eat it and not get down on my knees and lick it up myself! Will keep you updated on our progress :D
I hear ya, txspunk! Some of the joy of the teaching/learning process is that you don't want him to cum too soon; but if he does, you'll enjoy that load and then get back to teaching. As for the pre, I get off on seeing my bf lick his up almost as much as licking it up for him.
It would be really great if your bud learns to slowgasm; but you might also try the technique that my bf has gotten really good at using on me (I've talked about it before) where you get him into slowgasming by licking and sucking on his cock head. I know that you love to suck cock like I do, so you'll enjoy that; plus, you can demonstrate for him the process of backing off when he's real near shooting. Along the way, you can share his pre and his cum when it drools out. And you'll love driving him crazy with pleasure (his dick will feel SO good). BTW, when my bf and I get into this, we sometimes vary on the sharing part. Although I love getting a taste of my pre and my cum while he's teasing my cock head, I have to admit that I also love watching him enjoying licking and tasting. We even can't resist asking each other, "do you like that?" --- and you already know the answer. One other thing: watching each other suck dick and lick cum is too awesome! (Geez...... I think I know what I want to do tonight!)
Do please keep us updated!
Txspunk...Genuinefine did not bring this up, but in the past he has mentioned having is bf lick and suck his cock head while he is in-between slowgasm oozes--you know, when you are standing there hard with a hand full of jizz and your dick in that hyperactive slowgasm state. You might get your friend to try that sometime. I'm not sure how Genuinefine does this--it sounds fatal to me :lol:
Jizzyboner
genuinefine
10-26-2005, 10:15 AM
Thanks for the compliment, jizzyboner! Not every guy can take that level of intensity on his cock. If you're like I am, you're willing to see how much pleasure you can stand, and you've got a nice sensitive cock head, then what my bf and I do is just something you've gotta try. I can be into a slowgasm, one or both of us licking up the cum, and he starts sucking and licking my cock head. It gets totally intense for me, and it usually works up a lot of pre AND the next little load.
I'll say it again -------- if you can't get a bud to do this to you, and you can get your lips on the head of your own dick, do the suck-induced slowgasming to/for yourself. And tell us all how it went!!
ZelfZucker
10-29-2005, 09:00 AM
what also helps overcum any reluctance to swallow is to have a couple of drinks before hand. hard alcohol works better since beer tends to fill up the stomach and makes stretching harder to do.
it worked for me, i went from cuming in my mouth and spitting it out to swallowing the whole load. now, i don't even have to get buzzed to enjoy the creamy load. you'll learn to appreciate your load, its a bit of a acquired taste
Luvtwosuk
10-31-2005, 03:16 AM
Yeah this 'slowgasm' thing. I have done it a few times and i think i have kind of worked it out. First of all you need to know pretty much exactly when you are going to cum and what it takes for you to cum. The best approach i take is to slowly work my way up to just on the verge of orgasm by tossing off and then periodically squeezing the end of my dick when i get closer to cumming.
Then when your ready push yourself over that line just enough, (not as if you were just normally tossing off). Then completely relax every muscle in your body, let go of your cock and try to blank your mind of everything, (especially sexual stuff). It takes practise and i'm no expert but i do know it takes a lot of control. Just experiment with how far you can take yourself to cumming without doing it and practise at relaxing everything when you cum (including your mind).
The only time i ever cum and am still horny enough to eat it is when i 'slowgasm' so i know where your coming from.
Hope this helps
dreamsucker
11-09-2005, 05:42 PM
I remember the first time I actually tasted my own cum. My girlfriend at the time dared me to swallow my own load and I took the dare. I shot my cum in her mouth and then she put it in my mouth. I was shaking incredibly, but as soon as the cum hit my tongue I knew I was hooked. It tasted so good! Since then I have came in my mouth probably 200 times and every time is fantastic. I dream of sucking my cock, but I am not limber enough to reach even the head. For now I will keep jacking off in my mouth. All of this talk about eating my cum has pretty worked up.
depechemark
11-17-2005, 01:53 PM
hey FlyingBat...so u have pics and vids of you with cum on your face!...HOT!...i'd love to see them...can you email them to me by chance?...BTW, i promise i'm NOT a relative of yours...lol...here's my email...depechemark@yahoo.com....oh, and i have that same thing, i've tasted it a few times but most of the time i chicken out...it's weird...but i keep trying!!
barney19572000
11-27-2005, 09:21 PM
is there a charge here to see videos if there are any posted
InfernoXP
12-12-2005, 08:29 PM
hey anyone got a webcam?? i love sucking myself on webcam whoever wants to watch or cam to cam message
genuinefine
12-13-2005, 09:58 AM
Wish I had a cam......I'd love to watch you!
tempting
01-04-2006, 10:48 AM
I have the same problem, I just cum alover my face but cant taste it
selfsucker2
01-09-2006, 01:54 PM
Try this some time. After you cum, use a plastic straw and suck the cum into the straw and then place in the freezer. Then next time you are jacking-off you can suck on the "cum-cicle" you made while jacking off.
If you are worried about sucking on the straw to get your cum into it, then I suggest you shoot your cum into a plastic cup and then slowly pour it into the straw and then freeze it. You can always plug the end of the straw with some wax so it won't leak out.
horny4urbush
04-22-2006, 06:26 PM
hi I feel the same way I always want to eat my cum but yes after I masturbate and cum I am not interested and later I wish I had. today I masturbated and when I was getting ready to cum i let off and some of my cum came out and I ate that it was quiet a bit to I liked the taste. but yes after I cum I am not interested in eating it either. I have also when I get ready to cum I have thrown my legs over my head pointed my cock down at my mouth and came in my mouth that way. I am not gay I love women I just feel so horny before I cum I want to eat my own cum.
also another thing that has bothered me is it safe to eat your own cum, I guess it is.
jizzyboner
04-22-2006, 06:34 PM
hi I feel the same way I always want to eat my cum but yes after I masturbate and cum I am not interested and later I wish I had. today I masturbated and when I was getting ready to cum i let off and some of my cum came out and I ate that it was quiet a bit to I liked the taste. but yes after I cum I am not interested in eating it either. I have also when I get ready to cum I have thrown my legs over my head pointed my cock down at my mouth and came in my mouth that way. I am not gay I love women I just feel so horny before I cum I want to eat my own cum.
also another thing that has bothered me is it safe to eat your own cum, I guess it is.
Horny, youre not alone in your reaction to eating your own. "Slowgasming", which it sounds like what you were doing, is what works best for me. I can usually get two or three oozes of cum out of my rod before I finally blow a full orgasm. Luv the getting there, luv the eating, and luv the final spurt. Enjoy your jizz now before your gf demands it all! It's perfectly safe to eat.
thejollycocksucker
04-27-2006, 09:41 PM
So interesting to hear someone with an undiscussable problem that I had to put my hand up.
Here are two solutions to your dilema...
1) aim for your open mouth, so you will end up with cum in it anyways so you might as well swallow, or...
2) learn how to stop your orgasm as you cum so that you only cum half as much, but are still horny after. You will want to have an orgasm again right away. Then you will reach down with glee and suck the semen up on the head of your dick. Then you'll still be hot and ready, with the taste of cum in your mouth, a hard cock, and another orgasm to go without any down time. Then you'll bring yourself off again and for some reason, you will still wanna eat that cum! Sucking yourself off after swallowing a few cumshots will satisy your desire and make you feel like a real cocksucker. Believe me it is awesome - It blew my mind!
chaosXX
04-28-2006, 09:43 PM
how to make your own cock bigger?
LOVECRAFT
05-04-2006, 11:21 PM
i love to flip over an drain my nuts in my face. It forces me to swallow. But I don't mind waking uo to dried cum on my lips. It gets me in ther mood for an other load
peterpeter
05-16-2006, 12:26 PM
i used to be able to suck my own cock, but a bad back now makes it impossible. i use the slowcum system when i really want to taste it. i stroke myself slowly and carefully; i stop when my nuts are about to twitch, then i hold my hand still on my dick; if i time it right, i'll throb just 2 or 3 times, pumping out some cum which i plunge into my mouth. then i close my eyes, swish the cum around in my mouth and continue jacking off. on occasion, i can slowcum a few times [and keep filling up my mouth] until i finally orgasm.
honestly, i long for the taste of a cock in my mouth, and would REALLY like to suck another guy's dick and feel/taste him cumming in my mouth. ;)
mike69
05-24-2006, 11:56 AM
hot story,,and i also would love to feel another mans cock in my mouth and have him cum right down my throat
Steve
05-30-2006, 02:14 PM
I have the same problem and theres one way I know of that works for me (usually). Do it as fast as possible without ruining the moment.
1) Wait until youre really horny
2) Commit to yourself a few days in advance and think about it often.
3) Make the event special with your favorite positions and tools.
4) Get into a cum frenzy by bringing yourself to the edge a number of times. Keep thinking about your commitment.
5) When you start to cum, and begin to resist, BEAT THE URGE TO STOP and get it into your mouth as fast as possible by either positioning your cock over your head or a fast hand-to-mouth action.
Think of it as an investment I the future. The next time you play with yourself, you can relive the fantasy. As you know, the urge only cums back!
Go any shots for the advice?
Steve
genuinefine
05-31-2006, 10:04 AM
Steve, I think that's really good advice. Like a lot of other guys, there is something that sort of goes off in my head when I cum that often takes me out of the mood to eat it. So, doing it quickly helps, and getting into the idea of it, as you're jacking or sucking yourself ----- about how hot it is that you're eating your load ---- helps me follow through.
There are a couple of other things that help me: Edging to the point where I'm actually leaking out some cum, not just pre, definitely keeps me in the mood. Putting my legs up over my head, jacking my dick, opening my mouth & shutting my eyes can be a fun way to get the job done. And, chatting with an online bud where we both are jacking and commit to eating our cum can spur things on some too. Then, if you've been eating something like some sweet fruit beforehand, you could have some sweet tasting jizz to remember the next time you get the urge.
Nathen
06-07-2006, 08:19 PM
I absolutely love the taste of cum. I usually eat every one of my loads if I'm just jacking off by myself. One of my fantasies is to drink a shot glass full of cum everyone's shot in.
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vlurkmonster
09-23-2006, 05:55 PM
I like to use a dildo,I just stick it in and jack off. As soon as I feel like I'm gonna cum,I back off and milk my prostate. I get a lot of cum like that and I stay hard and aroused. I milk as much as I want and eat it up,then by the time I fully ejaculate,not much left. I usually slurp that up to,my cum taste good.
jizzyboner
09-23-2006, 10:59 PM
I like to use a dildo,I just stick it in and jack off. As soon as I feel like I'm gonna cum,I back off and milk my prostate. I get a lot of cum like that and I stay hard and aroused. I milk as much as I want and eat it up,then by the time I fully ejaculate,not much left. I usually slurp that up to,my cum taste good.
Vlurkmonster, That's an interesting method. Wanted to make sure I understood your method: u just stick the dildo all the way in but dont move it that much while you jerk, u just keep the dildo all the way in and ready? Then after jerking yourself to near-orgasm, u stop jerking and start working the dildo against your prostrate? Sounds like it makes your manparts behave the way they do when someone is doing a "slowgasm" (described in other posts), but maybe easier to control.
vlurkmonster
09-24-2006, 11:11 AM
Sometimes I move the dildo in and out,but only massaging the prostate.
genuinefine
09-24-2006, 03:24 PM
Sounds like something I've gotta try......SOON! Would be totally hot to see a guy use that method too.
vlurkmonster
10-03-2006, 09:42 PM
I just did it,I wish I had more cum.
golfman69
10-06-2006, 06:55 AM
Ok, I love it. I like to jack off until I edge then eat the precum and cum that sneaks out. I love the texture of cum, its silky and stays on my tongue so I can roll it around in my mouth even after the first load goes down. Sometimes I like to have it drop directly into my mouth and face when I cum so I put my butt up the wall at the head of my bed. When I jack off, my balls are flopping on my hand and make a slapping sound that really turns me on. When I cum I arch my cock outward so it is directly over my face. The cum squirts right into my mouth. Another way I eat my cum is to take a straw and place it over the hole of my cock so when I cum I can suck up the cum through the straw. Usually, I just jack off in my hand and lick it clean.
Don't be a pussy...cum doesn't hurt you. Eating cum is just a way to get the pleasure of cumming with our oral fixation at the same time. What a great deal. It would be the same as fucking your girl and eating the cum from her vagina. It doesnt mean you are gay.
angus1
10-12-2006, 06:17 PM
This is so hot,I am not sure that I can do it again. I hope so...
After taking a shower and shaving my cock and balls, I went to sleep,only to start dreaming of licking fresh sweet cum that was spewed onto my own cock and balls by a friend of mine. It was so real, the thick and creamy cum was all over my chest and skin just above my own cock. I was licking it off my fingers and enjoying every drop when next thing I was sucking my own cock with ease. Having my hot cock in my mouth and sucking on it until I was fucking myself in my own mouth. It was so hot that I woke up with a huge hard-on. Without thinking I got out of bed and walked into the kitchen in the dark. All I knew was that I wanted to taste and swallow my own warm,sweet creamy cum. I stroked my cock until I was ready to explode. You know how when ur hot and want to taste your cum but after you spew you may lose the urge. Well in the dark, not being able to see and only feel,I slowly masturbated my hot cock until my pre-cum was flowing from my cock. I licked every drop of it until I started shooting my load into my free hand. In the dark and my hand full of my own fresh cum,I rubbed it on my face and into my mouth. I kept stroking and squeezing my cock to get all of the cum I could produce. It was so delicious, I just had to have more....My cock was still hard,so I layed on the floor and propped my legs up against the kitchen counter and stroked my hot cock just above my face until I was able to shoot another load of my own sweet cum directly into my mouth,Wow....it was so hot I fell to the floor and rested for a few minutes. Using both hands I was able to find more cum that was on my chest and on my face....I was able to sleep like a baby after that. Just thinking about it makes me so hot I want to stroke my cock and drink more of my cum right now.....Enjoy yourself!
angus1
10-14-2006, 09:06 PM
I just had a dream where I was sucking on my own cock and tasteing and licking my own cum out of my hand while I sucked on a cock....after that I swallowed my own semen and that of my friends too....
The next day I went to a gay movie theatre...while sitting watching a movie, my chair was bumped again and again until I reached my hand behind me to feel a warm soft dick in my hand . I stroked it slowly until it grew in my hand...he was moaning for me to suck on his cock...of course I wanted to take his beautiful hard throbbing penis into my mouth...I waited until he begged me to suck on his cock...I got on my knees and waited for him to sit down in front of me...when he sat down he was exposed and erect...I slowly took his warm,hot sweet cock into my mouth, I held it in my mouth while my tongue licked his balls with his cock head against the back of my throat...I deep throated him until I started to gag...I knew I wanted to taste his cum... I told him to relax and that I wanted him to jack-off onto my face and cum into my mouth...He was so hot he spewed his sweet creamy cum all over my face and into my mouth...I drank it all down and he told me he was ready to cum again...I couldn't beleive he was ready to spew again...With the salty-sweet tate of cock and cum in my mouth already he showered my face and mouth with more fresh cum, and I licked and kissed and swallowed all of his delicious cock juices.....
hornydad69
11-06-2006, 09:33 PM
i love the taste of cum
06billy
11-11-2006, 01:24 AM
When you cam into your face just open your mouth,and take some jizz there. That is how I like to do it. Interested in picture exchange? I have a lot of my self getting jizz into my face.
I sure would really love to see some of your pictures06billy
angus1
11-11-2006, 09:03 PM
My own cum on my own face...
voltzzzz
11-15-2006, 01:07 PM
I am a heterosexual. I use to have difficulty in eating my semen. I wanted to, but as soon as I ejaculated, I was no longer interested in eating it. So one day I ejaculated into a small clean covered container and put it in the freezer. Soon I felt horny again and wanted to eat my semen, so I let it thaw out and enjoyed eating it, then I tried warming up the semen after it thawed out so it would be hot like my just released semen, and this was even better. But I wanted to get my semen fresh from my cock. I had discovered that if I had a pee and then immediately stroked my cock rapidly ,only getting a slight erection,I would ejaculate some semen without an orgasm .So after much practice I taught myself to ejaculate without having an orgasm so that I remained hard. I now can eat all the semen that I can produce.. I can now ejaculate 4-5 times until very little comes out the last time. Then I let myself have a nearly dry orgasm.
very curiuos
03-16-2007, 03:27 AM
i have no problem swallowing my cum its when i spew all over my face when i cant swallow it. i dont know why. my gay fantasy is to have 6 guys gangbang me and blow their loads al over my face and in my mouth. wonder where could fullfill that fantasy. probably never will. btw i know spelled curious wrong
angus1
03-16-2007, 06:34 PM
Thanks VeryCurious for making me spew my own cum into my own mouth
very curiuos
03-18-2007, 12:20 AM
ure welcome. im gonna try and cum all over my face and eat what goes in my mouth.
genuinefine
03-18-2007, 08:49 AM
ure welcome. im gonna try and cum all over my face and eat what goes in my mouth.
That can be one of the best ways to do it. (Edging is another.) If I shoot into/onto your face and get some in my mouth, then I don't have a chance to get out of the mood to eat it, like I might if I shoot onto my hand. Not long ago, I got into a great chat session with another horned up guy. We talked about how badly we needed to cum and how we enjoyed eating our own. When we got on the phone to pump off our loads together, I leaned back a little in my chair and shot a load into my face and mouth. I loved having my cum on me and eating it too. One of my favorite things is to do that with a chat bud and tell each other how good our pre and our cum tastes. I think we also help each other shoot that much harder.
very curiuos
03-18-2007, 12:19 PM
whats edging? i did it. i blew my load all over my face. i closed my eyes and opened wide. it was great. i wish i had a lot more loads to follow.
genuinefine
03-18-2007, 04:43 PM
Edging is when you bring yourself right to the "edge" of cumming, then stop working on your cock. If you time it right, you can get lots of precum, and after awhile, your pre's turning into mini loads of cum. It's great 'cause you can eat your cum or share it with a bud and you're still horned because you haven't actually orgasmed yet. You can learn to edge by sucking or licking your cock head; and if you go to far and shoot.......no problem, enjoy the load and try again later.
very curiuos
03-19-2007, 01:25 AM
ok ill try it. i like cllosingmy eyes and continue to jack at full speed when i cumfor the element of surprise as if it were someone else. plus it gets my face really messy
with cum.
Mister G
03-22-2007, 07:51 AM
i did a video shoot with a guy who wasnt able to selfsuck, but he was able to aim his cum right into his mouth, and when he shot his loads, it was like a CANNON OF CUM!!! really fun to watch (and film!)
jd-ross
03-23-2007, 12:55 AM
I had the same problem when I got in my hand I lost the urge to eat it, once I got over the first time, I eat it on a regular basis, its a great turnon and tastes good too
very curiuos
03-23-2007, 05:33 AM
hey mister g do you throw any of ur parties overseas? or know any one tht does? im dying to attend.
Mister G
03-23-2007, 10:27 AM
the main events i do are in New York City, but i have done events ALL over the world... europe, canada, south america...
guys cum from all over to my groups, then some have had me come over to their city to produce an event there. i also produce private groups for guys looking to live out a fun group fantasy scene.
guys have a good time, since i do a lot of themes: gangbang, bukkake, uncut, filmed pornparty, rimming, etc.
though i already have a special membership for guys who can selfsuck, i will be planning a large event that will include an autofellatio theme.
last gay pride, i did an event where a 6'3" stud flipped over and started sucking his cock, while another guy with a 7" thick cock fucked him... IN FRONT OF 125 OTHER GUYS... some other performers for that event got so horny, that they joined in fucking him until he blew his load right into his mouth!!! the crowd LOVED it, and the selfsucker guy really enjoyed getting the chance to show off...
... if anyone wants to participate in my upcoming pornparty group, let me know :)
genuinefine
03-25-2007, 01:01 PM
I had the same problem when I got in my hand I lost the urge to eat it, once I got over the first time, I eat it on a regular basis, its a great turnon and tastes good too
Same kind of thing happened to me & still does occasionally. I like to increase my urge to eat it by getting into chat or phone with a bud who is also into cum eating. We just agree to pop a load together & eat it (no faking).
If I'm into a good jack or self suck session, if I may not always eat my load, but I almost always eat my pre. It tastes way too good to waste.
SwallowMyOwn
10-19-2008, 08:55 AM
Ever try cumming on food?....Its a good way to get used to it!...I cum in my own mouth all the time, but I have also spewed my load on a piece of bread and ate it. I have cummed on an ice cream bar and ate it. My fave way is to shoot my load all over a peeled banana and then lick it off and shove it in my mouth like its a cock, then eat it!
The best advice I can offer you is just try smelling your cum in your hand at first. I mean for the next few times to get use to it. After you get use to your own cum smell, just try a quick dip with your tounge. Just relax your muscles in your body, and try a little taste, that's all. If you don't like it, try another day.
Also it depends on what you have eaten in the last few days. That will affect the smell and taste of your cum. Maybe you can ask the guys who you know have done it how they were able to taste thier own cum and maybe try what they did. After you try it once, you might like it a lot. If your a smoker, that will affect your cum taste in a negative way. If your a non-smoker, good job! Should be much easier. You could also try a product called Semen-X I think. I read about it on the internet a few years ago. It's a powder you mix with water and drink then in three days or so your cum will taste like candy, hehe. Anyhow, good luck.
SwallowMyOwn
10-19-2008, 09:00 AM
If ya wanna see some smokin hot vids of guys self-suckin and swallowing their ownloads...just go to Xtube.com!.....There are tons of em!
Type in keyword search: ..swallow, or self-suck etc..
I watch these vids on Xtube all the time and it gets me so hot I always end up having to cum in my own mouth after watchin...
i did a video shoot with a guy who wasnt able to selfsuck, but he was able to aim his cum right into his mouth, and when he shot his loads, it was like a CANNON OF CUM!!! really fun to watch (and film!)
dennis54
11-05-2008, 06:19 AM
how does i suck my cock by myself??:wink:
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